I NEED HELP! Why Can’t Guys Date Without Having Sex?

Hello fellow readers, how are you, and how is your day going?

I’m a virgin, I don’t want to have sex until my wedding night.
I’m a Nigerian, but my boyfriend is a white guy, he told me he loves, and he wants to marry me, but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating.
I tired of breaking up for this same reason.