Should Your Relatives Get Permission From You Before They Visit?

We all have those family members that see your house as a place of peace and enjoyment.

They get so comfortable with you that they don’t inform you anymore before visiting you. That’s family right!

I set boundaries between my relatives and family.

They can’t just visit without my permission. but if they have a tangible reason for visiting without informing me I won’t be angry at them.

For instance, if the person is coming from a long journey and it’s getting dark, my house might be the closest so he or she can decide to visit without informing me.

Though I don’t like that but I can’t let the person sleep outside because he or she didn’t inform me.